Changed

Altered or changed to a degree; life will now be viewed from the female point of view. There is little more defining of that reality; than the relationships between male and female. Because it is the search for safety, love, and freedom, that creates this path of life.

Guidance is required; because male animals seek to satisfy their chemical wants, and prove they can win “your trophy”. While hate wants to enslave, manipulate, and control. They both measure and judge; if they lift you too high/ they will search for ways to make you pay later. If they “want what they want/ and you don’t count as with lust”; they will become violent; to the degree hate resides in them. If they attack you; they have no respect/ and without respect there is no relationship of merit.

Only love exists to make life happy, and serves as the basis of our union; to be “beyond self” as we search together, for all that life experienced and expressed in love can be. Love is elementally; the expressions of caring/ and the experience of sharing; as respect and reality will allow. This becomes a home of safety, and the certainty of a living that need not fear.

People however “want what they want”; and in that reality they test each other, and use a relationship to form the games “humans play”/ a few, even if they love. Because respect does not disentangle the critical truth of “wanting to explore all sides of life and living/ as is constant with being a child”. All children test their parents; and all young people test their relationships; to conceive of “measurements”. To understand their abilities, to define their decisions, to understand their own place in this relationship of time spent; between life and death.

So we examine the truth of male and female among these traps; and find there are disciplines of the heart; all women should adhere too.

1. Love is not a game/ but animal lust is. While it can be fun to play games with life and body/ you must understand: that chemical lusts can rise and change the game into a fight for your own survival. Therefore only play games with those who represent “truth/ respect/ the values of love which are sharing and caring for all life and world; and happiness to you.

   1. TRUTH is absolutely essential to all forms of love/ without truth substantively and correct: there is no relationship. Which means a trap will come.

   2. RESPECT establishes boundaries and limits, without the need to ask. Or if asked they should be pain and clear/ and you should abide within them as well. Because respect is “a two way” street; so to speak.

   3. When people care, they care about life; and it shows in what they constantly do. Not “a one time show” just for you. They care about this world, and won’t choose to wreck life or habitat for the living. They are kind and considerate; and that extends to you.

   4. HAPPINESS exists wherever truth, respect, and love exist. Therefore if you are not happy one of these three is missing.

2. The intellectual game is: “to make you believe”. Because the intellectual “sees or builds traps”/ as is his method of playing games. If you fall in/ there will be a price to pay. Consequently let life itself decide; and REMAIN where safety exists, as best you can.

3. The human animal, may or may not be an intellectual; at the opposite side of games people play is the intent to get sex “one way or the other”. Hate resides wherever “there is a price to pay”. Removing choices, denying freedoms, controlling or manipulating purposes and its entrapment of you. While life as an animal is predator or prey; being human limits most of that to the realities of sex; and who can win. The cost of revenge against those who “made me lose”.

4. There is an alternate truth to male; which is: there are those who find a partially exposed breast (tits are, the visual sign of woman) as mesmerizing. EITHER and it is easy for women to see; these are lonely men wishing for woman in their lives/ OR it is lust, never truly both/ although “unwrapping the package” can bring out lust. Those with lust, want to use your body for getting their own chemicals; making your life “unnecessary”. This fades as time goes on; and violence can erupt/ because they want the same effects as occurred when being young; that are no longer available to them. They will blame you/ and violence becomes abusive and aggressive.

5. Some men will believe “you are for sale”/ and if they buy you things you want; then you will give them things they want. It is a barter system; “I work for you/ you work for me: no regrets, obligations, or illusions”. Basically prostitution with a different set of rules. Women commonly believe they can play this game to get what they want/ and give very little in return. With some men it works, and you will hurt their concept of women; and that changes how they interact with the next woman. While others find that men hurt them instead; and that changes how they interact with the next man.

6. Some men will hunt women as predators/ because they cannot win, or they just want more without paying the price. It is war (vile an egregious/ first step into Hades): take what we want/ and leave them without the means to attack us back. The curse of human failure expands with; “more than one man” attacking a single woman; for sex or abuse (second step into Hades; as is eternal terror). To refuse these animals of men; requires you to remain out of their sight: so they cannot focus on you. Which is why women look for men who can protect them; because it is impossible to remain hidden without losing your own life.

7. Men who are desirable “easily love, and are willing to be friends”. But they are also easily manipulated into sex; and find themselves chained to a reality of ‘now you owe me”/ you are mine. Even though “the purpose was for love/ and the desire was to be friends and more”. Consequently there are endless tears; because you cannot chain love, it is the freedom to redefine yourself with truth. As is I love you, in the true freedoms of my heart. But I cannot commit to a lifetime; even if you want what you want. Never was there a purpose to harm/ never was there an intent to betray, use, or abuse in any way. Love shared is love shared, because we did find caring and respect. But that is very different than survival, and its truth which is the order of life and living must come first. So that we can become alive within each other.

8. What is critical then is: an understanding of the laws which govern relationships. They are:

   1. to let truth decide. There is nothing better than love. But hidden; are the wants.

   2. To understand without respect there is no relationship. Do not play here.

   3. To accept and respect the limits and boundaries of safety; start with you.

   4. To play only where it is safe; as best we can. “let us be friends; first”.

   5. To understand sexual intimacy comes with a price; even when love decides.

   6. To ask: are you ready for the tears/ if something goes wrong. Can you provide?

   7. Never gamble; because that means you don’t know what truth will be.

   8. Sex for children is not love/ a child is not a toy, or a tool to use.

   9. Never trade sex for sex; because all types of perversion hides here.

   10. Complete the task of searching: by meeting all those you can meet honestly; to expand your choice. But remember they have a choice too/ as is fair.

   11. Do not hide in the illusion of “alcohol or drugs”; if you need to change/ just change.

   12. Help each other; because finding a true love is something we should all share. As best we can.

   13. Participate with each other, and include all those you can! Because no matter what the reality of “upbringing” has done/ each deserves to be treated with respect. Respect for one another is your greatest defense; against attack. Exclude hate; they are the vermin trying to gain access by stalking you. Expose them, so they cannot be hidden. But do understand; those who believe they are the prey; also hide from view/ but are not violent. We all need to participate as equals/ it is the arrogant (winner), apathetic (loser), and disrespectful (nobody cares for you); who constitute most of the troubles caused in this world.

       1. 1. IT IS a constant of human existence: that people “find a dollar, and declare themselves to be “experts”/ when in fact there are ten thousand more dollars lying around; which they never even noticed (like university). This is the basis of gossip and ridicule/ and it ought not to be. Because you don’t know, and you aren’t an expert; even if you found a “grain of sand on the beach”. Resolve to find in life value/ rather than a game.

          2. While it is true, that changes do not occur in male or female; as nature did decide is true. The realities of spiritual intervention; have altered and changed that in ways that are not of this world. Among the things recently taught: that it is very unfair, “not to own anything”/ and should never be between “male and female partners in life”. Marriage of life, by love; is about sharing what has value/ but not about taking control over the other. It is further realized; that female tits change the body almost entirely; when big enough to realize; the chemicals they release, and the reality of existence, has changed things. What is female starts to become in view.

             Critical to that truth is vulnerability; and the reality of safety.

             Which grants: the human male brain, forms from three separate paths;

             1. to love, the essence of happiness!  OR, to hate/ or to be an animal.

             2. But then “animal”: as is want, pride, and power intervene; to demand “I want to win/ I want to be superior/ I want to judge”. Each of these is a trap; and you should take great care when realizing this is a foundation of their lives. Because in an instant; want/ pride/ or power can take over; and become your enemy.

             3. Then comes “fear/ believe/ obey”; as is the alternate of wanting what I want. These are making you afraid, so that you will believe whatever I tell you to do/ and thereby make you obey. The element of hate; which becomes the violation of life itself. Beware of all things let the other life “fear”/ as is a choice. Be careful of what you believe as is the purpose of want modulated to give the power of your decision to someone else. Run away from “obedience” as is the intent to cage your life, and take all freedom away.

   14.  Timing and access: is basically everything in the world of dating. You have to meet someone in order to create a friendship that can then extend “to values shared”. Or a relationship that becomes a lifetime of caring, formed within respect. So it is necessary to create some form of invitation which allows for a conversation to begin. Many times that exists due to something worn or something used or something done, or people you know/ or just by accidents of one sort or another. But it is very necessary to “always be open” to an advance/ even if not interested: simply say no. but DO NOT seek to demonstrate ridicule or humiliate as these are confrontations to those who hate/ and that is a reason to make you pay. Simply say no, or not today. Explanations are not necessary.

       Timing on the other side of “access to talk”; is about how badly someone has been treated/ or must simply focus on something else in their lives which has taken control over “these moments”. Such as: a young lady sat down with me “years ago”/ but I could not respond; “just divorced”. Reasons other than you do exist. Remember the simple words: if you meet one hundred people in searching for a lifetime partner: is that too little/ or too many? Answer; no one knows, until the truth selects, and love desires we are “sharing”/ because we care.

       There are many people “easy to love; to which happiness would grant even more”/ but that is not a guarantee of relationship. Because love does not extend into the consequences of survival/ as does truth and respect. Instead love is love, and it is an open freedom to express and experience “my happiness and hope for life, can be extended to you too”. This is a value/ but it is not a chain. The realities of living together and working together and finding the same purposes in life together; are all part of desire. Which then creates commitment to you. Desire extends: from my life to your life “same”! Because our truth unites, and that is what becomes a lifetime of choices framed by our truth/ not just your truth. To participate in a lifetime shared; we must identify what is true for each of us, and that aligns with “getting to know each other”/ and that aligns with; I need to make my own choices in this/ and that aligns with, you cannot make this decision for us both. Even if the choice is not what you want/ the reality is love; and that does not deserve a chain. Tears are a reality of life; love does not make the tears/ loss does. Which does mean: something even more precious to me, is making this decision for us. Sometimes it is, a reality which cannot be discarded; not even for love.

       Every form of relationship, requires that truth will decide/ or the lies will tear something apart; and that is unfair to both. Let truth be truth; because nothing less than truth can survive.

       A word of advise: DO NOT enter into marriage/ until you DO understand the sexual demands that will be made of you/ or required by you. BECAUSE NOBODY needs to be surprised about something so fundamental as is this. DON’T get pregnant. DON’T USE someone else for sex. DO be fair and honest/ requiring the same of each other.

   15. the realities of “young love” are different/ but similar.

       The primary foundation of all young love is: to experiment with the body and life of the opposite sex/ in order to confirm what you can and cannot do. What you can or cannot experience or express in sex, companionship, and more. Therefore games are played, and choices are made: which are purely not intended/ because they can turn into a life changing event.

       Of the many things done, by the young: the most life altering is sex. The curse is: to teach “we can control”/ now you know. When in fact that is not the case at all. The curse is to teach; “you can evict a pregnancy without concern/ because you cannot. The curse is: that life nor sex is free; because there are consequences you must accept. The coward runs away/ the traitor thinks only of him or her self.

       The foundation decision for young women is: can you accept the cost of being pregnant and WHY? Because it is NOT just your life, pregnancy invades; but those who must take care of you and your child as well. Most young women decide; “can’t happen to me”/ but then after sex decide “what if it did/ HELP, I am in trouble”. And that cascades into a nightmare of scenarios all of which are real to the extent of change is happening; even if the reality is not real.

       There are endless delusions among the young; including running away and more. Endless needs among the young; as is the tragedy of sexual assault by others. Endless lies to make you believe what they want you to believe as is the manipulation of war between the sexes. As with all war/ it is never fair. It simply is what it is; no love intended; only want, pride, and power.

       Of things to be known is: as a young woman YOU MUST decide! WHAT WILL BE YOUR TRUE DECISION; if you do become pregnant? Because you cannot wait and see, as is the cost of failure in all of society. You must know, and then accept the choices that do exist for you. Once pregnant IT IS YOUR DECISION, to find an abortion if you need one: WITHIN THE EARLIEST POSSIBLE TIME: is without “cost/ and should be, society gives you this right”. Because once the fetus starts to display “human”/ the choice is absolutely different. Preferably before 40 days are up; after that every day counts. If on the other hand you choose late in pregnancy unless medically necessary; society should have the right to say NEVER AGAIN/ and enforce that on you; because it is life, showing alive.

       You boys/ young men; MUST BE DISCIPLINED enough to realize you penis is NOT a toy/ but a tool. That needs discipline to be functionally valued. The order of this is: without discipline you are not a man; simple as that/ “just a boy; who refuses to grow up”. My own relationship to that was: to accept the task of training; rather like a dog needs to be trained; in order to be a true companion you can trust. OR, more simply I AM IN CHARGE here, for love, NOT you. Don’t neglect it; your future depends more than you know; on this discipline/ and the order to let truth decide, when it is fair to participate. Unfortunately women have their own ideas about that; and you must do the best you can. Which means as with older age truths: you cannot let a woman make choices for you: period. NOR can you make choices for a woman in your life: EACH MUST MAKE THEIR OWN, and accept the consequences for that. Because consequences are real, and they don’t make allowances for what you believed; truth is truth. Just like no is no; even if you don’t want to stop. value MUST recognize order, and live within respect for their decision matters.

       then comes the inevitable; cost of being correct/ as people do walk away, when you say no. it is a fact of life; but make no mistake: “your truth is your truth”/ and tomorrow will thank you for being true to your life, and its chosen path. While sex is a foundation of change/ the innocence of not having sex; is one of the things “I missed most” in early life. Because now you are aware of choices that fundamentally change lives; because of what you did or did not do. Making you guilty of things beyond the decision you made. Realities which cannot be undone, even if you try.

       Ultimately: life is about learning; especially when you are young/ and every life needs to experiment and express a relationship with someone else when they are young. Which means in schools there MUST BE elements of living displayed in the things being taught.

       If not, failed behaviors rise instead.

       While parents try to enforce “I know better”/ the reality is they only know what life has taught them. Which means a successful parent will DISCUSS the realities of friendship and romance with their children while NOT trying to override their own decisions. Just make it clear what the costs and alternatives are. While being young all parents must enforce limits and disciplines and respect; to create an order within family. But at puberty those children are changing into adult; and to achieve their participation with you; as is “we can talk”/ you need to establish “we can and will talk”. Not hiding what you learned or why; because in the end we all make mistakes; what we do from that point is our truth identified as a choice we made.  judgment fails life/ therefore accept the decision to be fair.

       one of the great tragedies of life is: that neither young women or boys need to be willing for sex/ when a male is demanding it. They can be abused and used for purposes men who are entitled to receive “Hades (you earned this)” deserve.

       Be aware of isolation, the refusal to accept ANY form or invitation to participate. Be aware of ANY form of “always asleep/ or cannot wake; because they were afraid all night long”. Be aware of “happiness is gone”/ stay close, so that they do not fall into the abyss of nobody cares. Be aware of; distinct refusals to participate with a specific person or within specific environments. Be aware of a lack of respect/ a judgment, which then allows for the judge to measure as worthless, and design “if worthless I can do what I want”. And more.

       Be aware of lies; as both women and men/ boys and girls are guilty of them.

       Be aware: that trampling someone who deserves it/ may not be the best answer; for a lifetime.

       Be aware: that a death requires time to heal/ when love did exist.

       Be aware; that to accept one form of “responding to need”/ is not always the best response; because survival matters, and if you cannot make up the difference/ you cannot gamble with truth of life.

       Be aware: that people try to defeat other people from jealousy and other forms of initiating hate. Because they want to prove superiority/ OR your inferiority/ OR, they need someone to blame; because the real problem cannot be contested. The cost is too high. Having more, is not as simple as it sounds/ because someone is always seeking revenge; even if you are unaware of trouble. The cause is: I WANT MORE.

       Be aware: that we wear clothes to keep the human animals at bay. Because visual signals are significant/ and disciplines are not; animals fail/ and predators learn to disguise/ hunt. Even though nudity is “ultimately a right”/ it is not wise. There are “more eyes watching” in this world than you think.

       If the walls are talking and speaking of danger to someone else/ then it is your duty to record these things; and report them to the police. Because POLICING IS IMPORTANT to us all/ and those who are honest; do deserve our respect.

       The end of hate in society is the end of all the things which create hate: identifying what these are; should not be that difficult for you. Remove them from society; because without a prey to fall upon/ they will kill themselves, if they cannot escape their environment.

       To change a world; is not so hard as it seems. The critical truth is: accepting that change, willing to live within the boundaries and limits of that change. Learning to adapt to a new way of life and living; by letting truth decide instead of want.

       Same is true of me. Values rise with respect/ the dignity of life shaped by truth.

       Animals force their way inside/ intellectuals trap/ cowards hide, never peeking out/ predators do peek out/ hate will always judge you/ but love will “meet you, with cherished moments; that elevate the grace of living; with truth; as is the balance of a life, filled by hope”. Cherish each other; because the university cult of Satan sewage; is destroying life and world. Everything beautiful, REQUIRES “natures touch”.

       Learn the difference: between loving someone/ and wanting someone. Love seeks truth, and respects life and world and you/ want simply hunts for a reward. Those who feel left out, or “without enough to win”/ sometimes hypnotize themselves; to do, what they would otherwise not do.

       “just because”; it is advisable not to get tattoos (human graffiti). While it can create a conversation/ it can also degrade the value of your body. If breast cancer is “pandemic” as they suggest/ then one potential cause is the use of inks which migrate into organs. A massive investigation is required; because otherwise it is just the means to take your money/ as with a war, instigated against women, who join themselves to cry. Demanding “others will pay”. Know what is true/ don’t believe. They are more precious than you think; as reality continues to prove, one of the main paths to female existence comes from having tits (can’t escape), and the chemicals they produce.

       To what degree, “I will be changed/ is not relevant to you”. But this world has changed, and that is the difference between life or death for this planet; “a thousand threats” just to start/ courtesy university knows. Such as today: 8.2 billion people growing by 1.2 percent per year over deaths: is ONE HUNDRED MILLION MORE MOUTHS TO FEED, each year. Population control is mandatory/ not an option, IT DOES “include you and yours”.  we are all participants in our extinction/ or changed to express the desire to survive.