Limits

In the greater truth of things, the realities of safety are paramount to our existence/ but given that truth. The contrast is: if you pull back from risk/ then you will fail life itself, and hide in the lie that truth is not enough. Without truth we are as nothing, because only truth survives/ and only truth can make us happy.

Therefore we know: that dating between male and female is a truth that should never be taken from the value it is/ to the grave of “university knows, that intends to destroy it”.

And the world says: “university is god”/ yet all the evidence says, “your so called god” is literally responsible for all the threats we face as a world crisis confronted by extinction. So reality proves: “QUESTION YOUR/ their: claim of god”! Question media presentation of death by cursing life with “lets all just die”/ after all, men will just war; so throw your life away/ discard the future/ and pretend overpopulation doesn’t contribute.

Reality then suggests: there is no safety in university knows/ the risk of extinction is massive/ the cost of being wrong is extinction/ and the failure of all life on earth; as is the cult of university satan: destroys every foundation of life we require to survive.

So what is wrong/ apart from everything?

Lets limit it here to dating/ and provide NO men and women are not the same; as is media intent. NO, Women are not men hiding in a different costume. NO men and women should not go beyond their “specific group”/ as is destroying diversity. NO the heartbreak of men and women is only multiplied by demanding diversity boundaries are dissolved.

Or more simply: although it is plain and clear “women are to be found beautiful in every size, shape, skin tone, age and other”. THE INCREASED COMPETITION; fails life by letting “the few” continue to “win the game of dating”/ BY CAUSING endless heartbreak in the majority. As reality proves: the most capable of these not only finds a mate quickly/ they discard a mate quickly/ and they find another make quickly; which means the least capable have no options left but to throw caution away, and accept what is left/ that is already “damaged goods”. Which generally ends in tragic relationships as well. And is the probable cause of nearly all “homosexual/ lesbian/ other behaviors”.

Or more simply: structured competition can be beneficial/ but it fails completely when the competition is too much for life or society to bear. That allows some to “gather all the fruit”/ learning easy words and easy methods of betrayal; which others must then fix.

Life in nature is simple: EACH GROUP IS SEPARATE, because that allows each group to protect what is primarily important to that specific group. Leaving something else for the next group of alternate species or similar species: so that the greatest diversity allows for the greatest division of what nature can provide to all. By NOT demanding they all want the same.

In addition to that are the constant failures of men in each group, who are jealous of other men who want the same women they want/ and it goes to betrayal after that. One method is put them in prison, as is a constant/ fair or not, because you crossed the line. While women who are constantly looking to teach men; “you can’t tell me what to do”; end up trying to create jealousy by going to the other groups. Who have no intention of marrying you, or caring for a child or you. As with all young men in every group: they just want a trophy, toy, or trinket to display as their own/ until the others no longer want that either. BECAUSE UNTIL THEY ARE READY FOR MARRIAGE, it is, just a game.

So what to look for: RESPECT IS PARAMOUNT TO PROVING ANY RELATIONSHIP, AND IT IS RESPECT FOR ALL THINGS, LIFE OR EARTH.

So what to look for: TRUTH IS ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL, because anything less is searching for a lie to use or abuse you.

So what to look for: DISCIPLINE IS CRITICAL, because once in a relationship, YOU DO want to know how this is going to be “living with each other”. And if someone wants to be rich/ and the other does not care; or whatever it is. THAT WILL MATTER as time goes on.

So what to look for: ANY MAN who does not know his penis is a tool, to “help you be happy”/ is still a child wanting to use his toy. That can turn out badly; because his toy exhibits a chemical easily addictive; and like all addicts: it can turn bad. Because the addiction is ruling over him: BEWARE.

So what to look for: using sex to retain a man DOES NOT buy respect or admiration/ it will only buy time in some (not all). But time rarely underscores love, and complacency (this is easy) will disintegrate over time/ as will your own desire.

So what to look for: DO NOT COMPROMISE yourself, you are what you are/ and if that is not enough: it is time to find someone else. But beware of this: my own design was “although weight can go up and down/ I needed to know that I was more important than eating more than what is healthy for you. It is a choice/ it is your choice: same as it is my choice. Because the end result for me was: “a very disciplined life, defined important to me”. In contrast: “you compromise/ I compromise/ you compromise/ I compromise,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,etc” until we face the cost of being wrong.

So what to look for: while the reality of our situation is: humanity should not give birth to “one more child/ not already proven”; because the earth is full. OUR DECISION IS OUR DECISION/ NOT just yours. PREGNANCY IS YOUR DECISION as a woman/ but handing me the debt, is NOT my decision; unless it is my decision.

So what to look for: BE FAIR, be justified, help each other as best you can. Or more simply: LOVE MEANS, SHARING, CARING, RESPECT, VALUE, HOPE, TRUTH, TRUST (BINDS), FORGIVENESS if valid, COURAGE, understanding. An appreciation for knowledge, and the wisdom to stand up for yourself; because it is necessary NOT to drop down the abyss of want, and then become a slave; searching for an excuse…… you chose. Choose a better way, if that is not what you want.

So we end on this valentines day, with the honesty that is: unless you are true to the purpose of finding a mate for life/ you are cursing those with less options than you. Many get nothing but heartache; because you stole “all; just to play”. Bear in mind that when groups intermingle; it is nearly always for a purpose. Generally money/ property/ trophy time/ or similar; because “new and different” wears off, and then you become less, because the group is not yours/ or you are not theirs; and the doors to honest inclusion are blocked. Hard enough when everyone remains “the same”.

Check to see “who divorces most/ who transmits the most disease/ etc”.

We do have a responsibility to each other/ like it or not.

Some realities of note:

50 years ago, a young woman joined me at a table intending to strike up a conversation/ but I said nothing. Because my entire life was turned inside out by the woman who had just divorced me; “it was mutual”. So remember this: timing is everything/ while access is limited to those who are able to respond; and not heartbroken at the time.

In other news of note: the claim of breast cancer is “pandemic”/ statistics do NOT bear that out. But whenever reality surfaces, they hide the truth; so whatever exists today is like covid. Filled with lies.

In contrast of that is: there is most likely more, which means SOMETHING is causing it; other than “lets all cry”. The most likely candidates are chemistry; from sugar replacements/ to tattoo ink (men are not the same chemically) they don’t count. There has been massive increases in female tattooing. And a tattoo is realistically just graffiti; so why; it fails life?

We have over 80,000 new chemicals for the body to deal with, along with genetic mutilation everywhere: the only real question is: HOW SOON is nature going to die?

Remove old age as the cause of death, and you get “GIVE US YOUR MONEY/ EVERYONE IS DYING OF HEART DISEASE”. WELL without old age to remove the competition: THERE IS NO PLACE for the young. Its NECESSARY; like it or not.

Or more simply; use your brain/ not your television; they are NOT compatible.

I would suggest to “the dating world”; that a realistic method of “having a party”; would be to require. Each one brings a topic of conversation/ or something realistic to do: add a number, give that number to the participant. And then mix them up so that each person attending gets to draw a topic or other; and then talks to the corresponding person who wrote it for “20 minutes or so”. Reminding each one: that not only do we find each other by what we say/ reality will recognize “friends have friends or family”, and it is the easiest, and most reliable way to meet someone else. Because access; in dating can be the greatest gift of all.